The Harmony Compass

“I can do things you cannot, you can do things I cannot; together we can do great things.”
Mother Teresa

"How are we honoring each other’s strengths today?"

🎸 Why This Question Matters

Imagine you’re in a band. One person’s a phenomenal guitarist, another writes lyrics that break hearts, someone else has vocal range that stops time, and your drummer? Built like a metronome.

But… you give the guitarist a tambourine, ask the lyricist to lead vocals, and bury the drummer in tech support.

🤦‍♂️ You’ve got talent—but no harmony.

Or think about a football team with a quarterback who runs a 4.4 forty—but never runs a bootleg, option, or scramble. You’ve got explosive potential trapped in a playbook that wasn’t built for it.

This is what happens to teams who fail to activate strengths.

Too often, we see the genius in the room—but keep everyone locked in legacy roles and default systems. That’s not teamwork. That’s wasted brilliance.

🎯 Enter: The Harmony Compass
This question isn’t soft. It’s strategic.

“How are we honoring each other’s strengths today?”
It recalibrates the team around what’s working, what’s missing, and what needs to shift so every player is in position to do what they do best.

🌱 Step 1: See the Strengths
Use the “Strength in Circles” exercise to help teammates reflect each other's unique capabilities:

  1. Sit in a circle.

  2. Each person shares one strength they see in the person next to them.

  3. Go a second round where you each share how that strength could be used more effectively. But recognition is not the finish line—it’s the starting gate.


🚀 Step 2: Activate the Strengths

Here’s where the rubber meets the rhythm section.
Ask: “Where in this current project can this person’s strength make the biggest difference?”

Real examples:

  • 🎙️ A teammate has a voice made for storytelling → Give them client presentations or video creation roles.

  • 🎧 Someone’s quiet but detail-obsessed → Make them your “soundboard” on system integrity or bug review.

  • 🎼 A strategy-minded visionary who isn’t in a leadership role → Invite them to help shape the roadmap.

🎵 Like building a song around a killer chorus—you build your systems around your strengths.

🧰 Step 3: Build Systems That Leverage the Talent

Just like a band tailors its sound to its lineup—or a coach dials up plays for a running QB—you must engineer your workflow around your people’s gifts.

Examples:

  • 🎹 Product Team: If one teammate is an elite wireframer, create a fast-track lane for early-stage prototyping before meetings ever start.

  • 🎤 Sales Team: Got a rep who’s magnetic on social? Build a micro-influencer content stream around their personal brand.

  • 🥁 Ops Team: If your scheduler is a pattern-seer, build a rhythm of predictive planning around their insights.

The system should not simply accommodate talent—it should amplify it.

🔄 Step 4: Re-Map Roles to Reflect the New Song

Let’s get honest: as teams evolve, so must roles.
Sometimes the “lead singer” in one season becomes the producer in the next.

🎧 That’s not a downgrade—it’s an upgrade to overall impact.

In a great band, egos serve the song.
In a great team, every role evolves to serve the mission.

Leadership Tip:

  • Celebrate transitions.

  • Name the value in background roles.

  • Keep the spotlight fluid, not fixed.

🔁 Step 5: Schedule Strength Realignments Quarterly

Don’t wait for dysfunction. Make strength realignment a quarterly ritual:

  • What strengths have surfaced or evolved?

  • What current systems are suppressing talent?

  • What roles no longer match the rhythm of the mission?

🎼 This keeps your “band” playing in sync, without burning out or breaking down.

🎤 Final Note: Harmony Is Not About Everyone Playing the Same Note
It’s about every person playing the right note at the right time—for the right audience.
Great teams don’t just get louder. They get more intentional.

When you honor each other’s strengths, you don’t just create collaboration…
You create a symphony of results.

So ask the question: “How are we honoring each other’s strengths today?”

And then?
🎶 Rewrite the setlist. Rethink the solos. Remix the system.
Because your next breakthrough won’t come from working harder.
It will launch from playing together—on purpose.